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I have another topic that im currently researching! DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN AZ IS AT A ALL TIME HIGH! Prevalence of Domestic Violence Estimates range from 960,000 incidents of violence against a current or former spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend per year1 to three million women who are physically abused by their husband or boyfriend per year.2 Around the world, at least one in every three women has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused during her lifetime.3 Nearly one-third of American women (31 percent) report being physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives, according to a 1998 Commonwealth Fund survey.4 Nearly 25 percent of American women report being raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or date at some time in their lifetime, according to the National Violence Against Women Survey, conducted from November 1995 to May 1996.5 Thirty percent of Americans say they know a woman who has been physically abused by her husband or boyfriend in the past year.6 In the year 2001, more than half a million American women (588,490 women) were victims of nonfatal violence committed by an intimate partner.7 Intimate partner violence is primarily a crime against women. In 2001, women accounted for 85 percent of the victims of intimate partner violence (588,490 total) and men accounted for approximately 15 percent of the victims (103,220 total).8 While women are less likely than men to be victims of violent crimes overall, women are five to eight times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate partner.9 In 2001, intimate partner violence made up 20 percent of violent crime against women. The same year, intimate partners committed three percent of all violent crime against men.10 As many as 324,000 women each year experience intimate partner violence during their pregnancy.11 Women of all races are about equally vulnerable to violence by an intimate.12 Male violence against women does much more damage than female violence against men; women are much more likely to be injured than men.13 The most rapid growth in domestic relations caseloads is occurring in domestic violence filings. Between 1993 and 1995, 18 of 32 states with three year filing figures reported an increase of 20 percent or more.14 Women are seven to 14 times more likely than men to report suffering severe physical assaults from an intimate partner.15 Domestic Homicides On average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends in this country every day. In 2000, 1,247 women were killed by an intimate partner. The same year, 440 men were killed by an intimate partner.16 Women are much more likely than men to be killed by an intimate partner. In 2000, intimate partner homicides accounted for 33.5 percent of the murders of women and less than four percent of the murders of men.17 Pregnant and recently pregnant women are more likely to be victims of homicide than to die of any other cause18 , and evidence exists that a significant proportion of all female homicide victims are killed by their intimate partners.19 Research suggests that injury related deaths, including homicide and suicide, account for approximately one-third of all maternal mortality cases, while medical reasons make up the rest. But, homicide is the leading cause of death overall for pregnant women, followed by cancer, acute and chronic respiratory conditions, motor vehicle collisions and drug overdose, peripartum and postpartum cardiomyopthy, and suicide.20 Health Issues The health-related costs of rape, physical assault, stalking and homicide committed by intimate partners exceed $5.8 billion each year. Of that amount, nearly $4.1 billion are for direct medical and mental health care services, and nearly $1.8 billion are for the indirect costs of lost productivity or wages.21 About half of all female victims of intimate violence report an injury of some type, and about 20 percent of them seek medical assistance.22 Thirty-seven percent of women who sought treatment in emergency rooms for violence-related injuries in 1994 were injured by a current or former spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend.23 Domestic Violence and Youth Approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and/or sexually abused by a dating partner.24 Eight percent of high school age girls said “yes” when asked if “a boyfriend or date has ever forced sex against your will.”25 Forty percent of girls age 14 to 17 report knowing someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend.26 During the 1996-1997 school year, there were an estimated 4,000 incidents of rape or other types of sexual assault in public schools across the country.27 Domestic Violence and Children In a national survey of more than 6,000 American families, 50 percent of the men who frequently assaulted their wives also frequently abused their children.28 Slightly more than half of female victims of intimate violence live in households with children under age 12.29 Studies suggest that between 3.3 - 10 million children witness some form of domestic violence annually.30 Rape Three in four women (76 percent) who reported they had been raped and/or physically assaulted since age 18 said that a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, or date committed the assault.31 One in five (21 percent) women reported she had been raped or physically or sexually assaulted in her lifetime.32 Nearly one-fifth of women (18 percent) reported experiencing a completed or attempted rape at some time in their lives; one in 33 men (three percent) reported experiencing a completed or attempted rape at some time in their lives.33 In 2000, 48 percent of the rapes/sexual assaults committed against people age 12 and over were reported to the police.34 In 2001, 41,740 women were victims of rape/sexual assault committed by an intimate partner.35 Rapes/sexual assaults committed by strangers are more likely to be reported to the police than rapes/sexual assaults committed by “nonstrangers,” including intimate partners, other relatives and friends or acquaintances. Between 1992 and 2000, 41 percent of the rapes/sexual assaults committed by strangers were reported to the police. During the same time period, 24 percent of the rapes/sexual assaults committed by an intimate were reported.36 Stalking Annually in the United States, 503,485 women are stalked by an intimate partner.37 Seventy-eight percent of stalking victims are women. Women are significantly more likely than men (60 percent and 30 percent, respectively) to be stalked by intimate partners.38 Eighty percent of women who are stalked by former husbands are physically assaulted by that partner and 30 percent are sexually assaulted by that partner.39 WE NEED TO PULL TOGETHER AS A COMMUNITY AND FACE THIS ISSUE HEAD ON WITHOUT LOOKING BACK!

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Credentials: TilasHotSpot.com Member TilasHotSpot.com Member
Home: Phoenix, Scottsdale, Glendale AZ, CA, United States
Sex: Female
Age: 27
Sign: Gemini
Status: HAPPILY MARRIED!!!
Orientation: Straight
Religion: Christian - Other
Drink: Yes
Smoke: Yes
Education: Grad / Professional School
Occupation: Buisness Owner
Home Town: San Diego
Member Since: 11/12/2007
Url: http://myspace.com/AUTIBOD
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Y!®: colorgemini24@yahoo.com
MSN®: autumn223@msn.com
Online Now: No
About Me:
i'm just a girl trying to discover my path to happiness; some days i feel like i've got it all figured out and i can see clear around the earth, others i feel like i was just born yesterday. i am in a constant state of change and growth, striving to live the best life i can and be the best person i can be. i embrace life's challenges and relish in simplicities. the greatest beauty is often found in the most unexpected and sought out places. sometimes all you have to do is close your eyes, open your ears, and smile a little smile... LIFE LESSONS: We grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.
I was born in San Diego and moved to phoenix, az when i was 14 to meet my mom. Then just kinda stuck around!
I have a beautiful step son which is my world and I own a painting buisness that keeps the bills paid! i AM HAPPILY MARRIED TO A WONDERFUKL GUY NAMED JASON!!!! I WOULDNT BE THE PERSON I AM TODAY WITHOUT HIS SUPPORT!!!
I want to save the world!!!! Of course we all do however I feel there is steps to take in the right direction. Believe in something,,,,,,,,,
IMPORTANT INTREST~ TO STOP RACISIM!!!!!to End Racism (UER) we are group of people from many racial groups, ages and backgrounds, who are dedicated to eliminating racism in the world. To fully eliminate racism, UER says we must all work to heal the following three forms of damage:
• Damage done to individuals targeted by racism.
• Damage to members of targeted groups from having "internalized" racism.
• The corruption of the minds and spirits of those conditioned by society to act as the agents of racism.

All three forms of damage can be healed!

Even under the most severe racist oppression, people are able to move forward simply through the force of their own thinking and determination. However, unless they recover from the emotional hurts of racism, they continue to carry the effects of those hurts, affecting their thinking and behavior. Unhealed, racism limits and damages everyone's abilities to think and work cooperatively and limits our capacity to end the other forms of oppression in our societies.

When we are allowed and encouraged to tell the stories of how racism has affected us, with others listening and giving their full attention, we will begin to heal. When we recount the facts of these stories, and allow ourselves to feel and show what it was like personally - feel and express the rage, grief, or terror - we become increasingly free of the damage of racism. The emotional effects of racism can be healed if the person is given enough time, attention, and understanding
Favorite Music:
I listen to it all!!! well, honestly not too much country!!! 30 seconds to mars, pit bull,audio slave, colbie callet, fergie, akon, gucci man, plies, DARK, LUDA, Rihanna, chris brown, I LOVE THE LIMP! 2pac, AMG and Quik, 602 crew, MC MAGIC......tech 9, too short, young jock! sara berilles, erika b. I could go on and on! I also love oldies! I LOVE FLO RIDA, T-PAIN, AND OF COURSE TILA!!!! .hov:hover{background-color:yellow}

Favorite Books:
TO KILL A MOCKINGBIRD!!!! ALL TIME CLASSIC!!!! R.L STINE BOOKS

Favorite Movies:
Scarface, Oceans 11, 12 and 13 rocked!!! UMMM, the condemed! The art of war, I had a thing once about Clueless!!! lol F&F flicks, TOURQE was my absolute fav!!!!

Favorite TV Shows:
UFC, SCRUBS, CSI, A SHOT AT LOVE OF COURSE!!!!! REAL WORLD LAW AND ORDER!!! THE DUEL, TOUGH LOVE, BURN NOTICE

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Mark as Spam ♥suckmykiss♥ : 05/14/2009 3:39 PM
hey ..great to see ya back!
Mark as Spam blitzy : 05/14/2009 12:57 PM
heyyy i think i found you!
Mark as Spam GRATIAN : 12/31/2008 12:52 AM
Wow. So why Tila decided to close this group? Aftere readin some of your journals and other's members of EGP I felt that you were really great peaople and Since I am a member of THS I've always wanted to be a part of this project.
Mark as Spam wantingthechange : 10/19/2008 8:28 AM
thank you for the friendship - thank you for supporting "wanting the change". please feel free to contribute or notify us of causes notable on our website - www.wantingthechange.com
Mark as Spam praetor : 10/03/2008 1:14 AM
You still out there?
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